In my previous blog post about clearing out I used the phrase 'extreme clearing out' to describe what we were doing because that is how it felt. Indeed, the fact was we'd left the vast majority of our 'old lives' in a friends attic. From old stereos, vacuum bags of clothes, teddies, ornaments, university lecture notes......it was all up there gathering dust. Plus several other smaller mountains of stuff we'd left with different family members. Put simply, after more than 2 years not needing any of it, it just felt wrong to hang onto it any longer when most of it could still be useful to others.
So we passed it on, giving most away, selling a handful of valuable things and recycling what little wasn't useful to anyone else. Eventually we were pleased to be left with around a 12-15 plastic tubs and a few bags and other loose items (like a guitar, turbo trainer etc.) accounting for most of our remaining 'stuff'. Most of what was left, we reasoned, was useful - pots, pans, cutlery, spare clothes, spare hiking gear....along with a few other sentimental items we didn't feel ready to let go of just yet like childhood and university sports uniforms.
At times during summer our thoughts have occasionally turned to our remaining pile of 'useful' things now stored in another friends garage and wondered - could it be smaller? I say 'wondered' but I guess it would be more accurate to say 'known' it could be smaller. So we resolved that when we were next back in Britain we'd strip it down a little further still.
There are other things as well - sleeping bags for -20 degrees, extra tents, ultra light hiking packs......then there are 2 tubs of extra clothes, more base layers than we ever wear, more cycling gear than we can carry in a motorhome.....
Yet when we did our first round of 'extreme clearing out', while it was 'easy' to accept we no longer needed an old stereo, old work shirts, ball gowns, ornaments these other 'useful' things made the cut because we still like hiking, cycling etc. We might still want them 'one day' when our current gear wears out or we do go to the Himalayas.
But what this summer has really hammered home to us is a few, we think, vital lessons:
(1) we really do 'need' very little to be happy and thrive.
(2) it just doesn't feel right hanging onto 'extras' and 'spares' just in case we need them, while other people could be using them now.
(3) If we ever do need something (like a very technical B3 grade hiking boot) we can get them when we do. It's what we've done all summer, picking up what we've needed along the way and, despite doubts and worries, what we have needed has always been available.
Plus, when we hoarded we'd also feel compelled to use the spares we'd bought in the past. Even if they weren't what we really wanted or needed. The truth us technology moves on. Take my expensive boots that have been in a cupboard unused for 3 years now. If I ever did need them there'd likely be a new, lighter, more durable option out there. The same goes for most things, even fashion which I personally know little about.
We've come to see hoarding is actually a false economy. We find it better to get what little we need as we go along.
So that is why, with our plans taking us back to the UK in just a couple of weeks now, we have resolved to take some time to clear out a little further still and make sure that that possessions remaining in our daily life are almost exclusively things that are useful to us in the here and now' - like pots and pans for our next motorhome, just enough clothes to have choice without bursting drawers, a laptop etc. Our aim is to have 'enough'. And by enough we mean that when we drive a motorhome away from our friends garage everything we need is on board and there is nothing left of ours in the garage.
But there is one final lesson we mustn't overlook and it is one we learnt earlier this year when we first began our clearing out. That is, it seems so easy in principle to get rid of things from afar but when confronted with the stuff it can feel much harder. Feelings of "oh, we can't really get rid of that" or "I forgot we even had them" can lead to things being kept "just for now and we'll deal with it later".
Which is why in addition to writing this post and making a resolution to clear out a little more, we are actively making lists of what we plan to pass on and what we plan to keep while we are still here in Switzerland. In fact, the list of things we need is actually the most important to us because it can help us deal with those surprise items we can't even remember having right now.
Not that I'm saying " if it ain't on the list its got to go ", we remain flexible naturally, but we hope it will help us remain focused on how we feel right now, so full of life and feeling vibrant in our lightweight, uncluttered lifestyle.